Do you make sure you and your spouse have time together as a "couple" instead of as "parents"?
My hubby and I are fortunate that our kids go to bed quite early (Kyle normally by 630, but if he doesn't nap then 5pm) and Julien generally by 8pm at the latest.
This gives us time to re-connect - whether it is sitting outside on the porch, backyard, or watching a movie. We have time to talk about our day, what is going on and for me to fill him in on what the kids have been up to.
We used to make sure that we got out at least 1x 2mths, but since having Kyle that hasn't really happened. We are planning on making sure it does now though. When you have a baby that will only fall asleep after nursing, and needed to nurse at wake ups, it made it a little difficult for me to leave him. It didn't bother me though, I knew that by nursing him, I was going to be tied to him until he gave it up, and I was happy to do it.
Now that he has finished though, I am looking forward to getting out of the house with my husband more frequently. We have our first one planned for next weekend - we will be going out bowling and for drinks with another couple.
What type of things do you and your partner do on your date nights? Movies, dinner, drinks?